Songtexte
- Don't Hold Your Breath
- Transition Time
- Cueing
- Be Clear About Your Values
- Realization
- Give Basic Direction
- Accept No Excuse
- Single Issue Focus
- Demand And Expect Compliance
- Disconnect
- Responsible Love and Concern
- Identify Thinking Errors And Excuses
- Act as If
- Be An Empowered Parent
- Stop The Show
- Family Business
- Redirect Interest
- Use Selective Attention
- Esteem
- Use Direct Statements
- Harmless Humor
- Choose Your Fights Carefully
- Be A Role Model
- Strategic Recognition and Affection
- Give Consequences
- Use Consequences To Get Honesty
- Replacement And Reciprocity
- Training and Coaching Role
- Behavior Problems Stemming From Divorce
- False Self-Perception
- Step 7: Ask Kid To Choose.
- Identify The Trigger Thought
- Realization // Conclusion Of Disc 4
- Disconnect (Don't Argue)
- Constructive Self-Talk
- Move On
- The Blame Game
- Rule Deflation
- (Ineffective Parenting Role #1) Overnegotiator
- Introduction To The Trigger Management Process
- Introduction
- Sincere Self-Delusion
- More On Faulty Thinking
- Alternative Response Process
- Use Strategic Recognition And Affection
- Ticket Puncher: "You're OK..." (even when he's not)
- Be the parent your child NEEDS.
- Communicate
- Accept No Excuse For Abuse
- It's not just a phase.
- Assuming
- Implement It (Right Now)
- Step 5: Declare (Tell The Kid To Stop.)
- Manage The Situation
- Conclusion of Ineffective Parenting Styles
- Problem Solving Role
- Introduce This Process During Calm Times
- Think Of Your Family As A Business
- Act As If...
- Choose Your Fights Carefully, And Win The Ones You Choose
- Introduction To Faulty Thinking Patterns
- Use Responsible Love And Concern
- Martyr (I'll do the work for him)
- Uniqueness
- Projections
- Minimization
- Savior (Insulating child from his consequences.)
- Step 4: Challenge The Triggers
- Introduction: 27 Tools You Can Use
- Behavior/Emotional Blackmail
- Simple Plan
- Use Single-Issue Focus
- Screamer
- Hypodermic Focus
- Harmless Humor Never Hurts (No Sarcasm)
- Esteem: Hold Your Child In High Regard
- Creating a Culture of Accountability
- Limit-Setting Role
- All-Or-Nothing Thinking ("Always" Or "Never")
- Thoughts Create Feelings (Such As Anger)
- Step 3: Identify The Triggers Preceeding The Misbehavior
- Personalizing (Taking Things Personally)
- Step 2: Confront (Meet It Head On, Honestly)
- An Example Of The Alt.Resp. Process
- Conclusion
- Embracing Negativity
- Awfulizing
- Step 6: Probe (What Can You Do Next Time?)
- Develop Status Levels
- Diminish The Potential
- Step 1: Investigate (Ask Him What He Saw)
- Bottomless Pockets
- Perfectionist (Nothing's ever good enough)
- Visualizing an ideal child
- Excuses
- Emotionalizing (Feelings Aren't Factual Or True)
- Step 8: Consequences And Amends
- There's A Concept Called 'The Good Enough Parent'
- Parents Blame Themselves For Their Child's Behavior
- A Ton Of Bricks
- Uniqueness: 'You Don't Understand!' (Characteristic #3)
- Self Disclosure to the Child
- 'Wishful Thinking' (Characteristic #10)
- Halt Overstimulation
- Too Much Noise
- 'Dishonesty & Mis-Information' (Characteristic #13)
- Stuck In A Jam
- What About Self-Esteem?
- 'The Put Off, "I'll Do It Tomorrow."' (Characteristic #11)
- Once Around The Park
- Sun Storm
- Cheater Fingers
- Use Of 'One-Way Boundaries' (Characteristic #4)
- 'Concrete Transactions' (Characteristic #5)
- 'Casing' (Characteristic #12)
- Scripted for the Next Time
- Assume Control
- 'Partialization' (Characteristic #16)
- Figure It Out
- 'Anger With An Angle' (Characteristic #7)
- Helping A Child Cope With His Problems Appropriately
- The 'Victim Stance' (Characteristic #1)
- No Speeches
- 'False Apologies' (Characteristic #14)
- Kids With Challenges
- 'The Turnaround' (Characteristic #15)
- Hey Mom And Dad
- Here Is Now
- Look Around
- Characteristics & Practices Of Kids With Obnoxious & Abusive Behavior
- Summary/Conclusion
- 'One-Way Training' (Characteristic #8)
- Rock Fixation
- Focus on the Behavior
- 'Pride In Negativity' (Characteristic #6)
- Accept Bad Moods and Bad Days
- Painted Blue
- Rock Fixation Too
- Procrastination
- Disrespectful, Abusive & Obnoxious Behavior Is Not Caused By Low Self-Esteem
- Why Do Parents Always Have To Respond To The Outbursts Of The Moment?
- 'One-Way Role Models' (Characteristic #9)
- Do, Not Say
- Ticket To The Past
- Can't Stop
- Chubby Boys
- Injustice: 'It Just Isn't Fair' (Characteristic #2)
- Sad Happiness
- Special Friend
- Good Thing We All Agree
- Ever In The Daylight
- Do Kids Pickup On Parents Who Think It's Their Fault?
- All I Want To Do Is Sleep
